Look Good, Feel Great, Be Inspired
March 18, 2011 § Leave a comment
Whether you’re a rebellious teen trying to find your’ niche’, a busy mum struggling to find the time, a career woman intent only on success or a home-maker whose social outings include popping round the shops and down to the bottom of the garden to hang out the washing… (phew.., breathe.., that sentence was probably too long) IT’S IMPORTANT TO LOOK GOOD IN ORDER TO FEEL SPECIAL. In my opinion at least.
I walk to work in the morning, on arrival I change into my uniform, after work put my own clothes back on and I walk home again. Still, I would never feel happy walking out of the door in the morning, in anything less than ordinary clothing. I would never leave in a tracksuit, fleece or trainers (but thumbs up to the office workers who choose comfort as opposed to heels in the morning – that’s OK!). I enjoy clothing, it’s my art – as corny as that sounds – and I wouldn’t start the day as I mean to go on if I weren’t feeling creative or inspired.
There may be many reasons why you can’t be bothered to up your style in the morning:
LACK OF TIME: This is probably a factor for the majority of people, preparation is key. I hate rushing to get ready in the morning, any amount of free time I have is best spent drinking coffee, watching the news and eating a hearty breakfast – I couldn’t function with any less than two out of the three. It makes a huge difference if you prepare an outfit for the next day, the night before. You don’t have to try things on if you can’t be bothered, just pick one piece of clothing (or one accessory) and work around it. For example, if I pick a beaded turquoise necklace to wear the next day, I would consider which colours might work well with it – orange or dusky pink perhaps – and turn to my wardrobe for complimentary items in those colours. Add a scarf encompassing all of the colours in your ensemble and voilà, you have an outfit prepared. If you’re feeling especially creative at that moment in time why not put a few outfits together and hang them in your wardrobe ready for another day. The most vital piece of advice is dont stray from your original outfit – you will only waste time and end up going back to your first idea!!
LACK OF ENERGY: Again, another factor which probably affects most of us. I can’t pretend to understand the life and times of a busy mum, I have a HUGE amount of respect for them but if you don’t have to think too much about getting dressed then you’ll find more time to clean up the baby poop! I think it’s brilliant when mums invest a little bit of time into preening themselves. Use statement accessories (belts, scarves and jewellery) with a classic jeans and tee combo, easy, and I also think Harem trousers would be a great investment as they are so easy to wear and hide the post baby weight!
WHAT’S THE POINT: If you’re not going out for the day then what’s the point? Imagine yourself as a student. If you lounge around the house all day in slippers and jogging bottoms instead of getting dressed and heading down to library, do you think you would get nearly as much work done? No, it just makes you feel lazy and sloppy. You never know what will come up during the day or who you meet so if you put on a lovely outfit you’ll feel much better about yourself and if you decide to go somewhere, you can just walk out the door. Of course I love duvet days, lounging around watching films or reading a book, but those days are planned. If you wake up and spend the day lazing around in your pyjamas when you could be ticking off a chore list, trailing around the the charity shops or visiting an art gallery that day is wasted, and you won’t feel great about yourself. So, get up, get showered and put on something nice!
Unfortunately or not, we live in a society that defines people by their appearance. It is impossible to look your best at every hour of the day, perfection isn’t the goal here. Living a life that involves being dolled-up to the nines day and night is a recipe for stress! What’s important is to live life to the full, learn to love your body as it is now and ENJOY dressing up. Your outward image also encompasses everything from posture and self-image to body language. More often than not, if you look good you feel great a positive self-image follows on naturally from that. Brilliant. It becomes unhealthy when individuals begin to compare themselves against unrealistic and unattainable icons, but I’m talking about knowing who you are and having the confidence to portray that on the outside. In reality, each and every figure flaw you may have; the spot on your nose, a bootylicious bum, dreaded cellulite or a few extra pounds that week are NEVER really noticed by anyone other than yourself. Really!